Looking to be valued by others is one of the reasons why people go out of their way to do things that they would have otherwise not done. Men borrow money to project the idea of wealth to ladies. They want to be seen as if they are eating life with a silver spoon. Women on the other hand put on fake hair, nails and even eye lashes to appear attractive and increase their value in others.
However what people don’t understand is that outward appearances fade. But the self-worth that someone has inside is what will stay with them forever. Do not wait for someone to validate you. Know your self-worth. Once your mind is set, you will not be moved by other people’s opinion of you. It is good to want recognition, but it should not dictate how you live your life.